| Location | Maryland |
| Age | 8 months |
| Date of Birth | 3/2007 |
| Date of Death | 11/2007 |
| Visitors | 8,237 since 21/12/2007 |
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Christian Thomas Hromada
March 19, 2007 - November 26, 2007
8 months, 1 week old
Christian was a very happy baby from the day he was born. He rarely ever cried. For the short time he was here, he brought so many people so much joy, just by being in his presence. He was truly a gift and a blessing. He had a smile that could just envelop you and light up the whole room. He loved to cuddle, and had plenty of family members and friends who were more than willing to accomodate. My favorite memories of him are of him running around in his walker, his laughter and cooing, his beautiful smile, the way he used to play with his hands all the time, the way he played with my hair, and the way he looked at me with so much love. He has a 14 year old sister, Krista, who loves him dearly and used to find new books to read to him all the time. I wish that I could've had more time with him and that I could've seen him walk and hear him say "mommy", but I also cherish what time I did have with him and wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.
On the night of November 25, 2007 his mommy fed him some cereal and a bottle, and he went to sleep. He woke up an hour or so later and wanted to play and run around in his walker for a while. He seemed so happy just following mommy around everywhere. Then as it got later, he got really fussy, so mommy rocked him and sang to him and finally got him to sleep. Little did I know those were my last precious moments with my little baby boy. When I woke up the next morning, November 26th, I looked at him and thought he was still sleeping. I went into the kitchen for a minute and then came back to check on him. That was when I noticed something wasn't right. He looked really pale. I went to touch him and he was so stiff and cold. I realized he wasn't breathing. I picked him up and screamed, "NO! NO! Wake up, please wake up!" Then I got myself together and called 911. I was instructed on how to perform CPR. I was a nervous wreck. The ambulance showed up and they took him to the hospital immediately. I had to get dressed and follow in a police car. The whole way there, which seemed like forever, I kept praying for a miracle. When I got there I was brought to a little room for privacy and had to wait for what again seemed like forever. Finally, they sent someone in to tell me there was nothing they could do. My mother, my brother, Tommy and my sister-in-law, Denise showed up at the hospital and were there to comfort me, but I couldn't breathe properly. I almost hyperventilated several times. They sent investigators in to question me and I finally started crying. I couldn't cry at first because I was in so much shock. The next week I was in such a daze and just trying to get through all the arrangements and the funeral. He died two days before my birthday and I had to pick out his gravesite on my birthday. I keep waiting to wake up from this nightmare. I even have dreams that Christian wakes up and he is fine and I would hold him and keep close watch on him, afraid to let him fall back asleep. I'd get so excited, thinking I had a second chance and then I would wake up and the reality would hit me all too hard, that he wasn't here. The autopsy results showed nothing abnormal, but we are still waiting for final results on the other tests that they ran. They think it is SIDS though. He was a very healthy baby, with nothing wrong other than a little cough every so often.
(UPDATE: We recently got the final results from the coroner's office. They are calling the cause of death SUDI - Sudden Unexplained Death in Infants. Although I was told from the beginning that it most likely was SIDS, and I believe that SUDI is just another name for that, it still bothered me to hear it as the final cause. It bothers me and hurts me to think that my healthy baby boy could just suddenly die and no one can give me a real explanation or a reason why!)
He is my little angel up in Heaven now, but he will always be loved and cherished from now until eternity. And he most definately will not be forgotten. Below is a poem that I wrote for my sweet little boy. I actually wrote it on my birthday, just two days after he left me to go to Heaven. It came to me after I went to the cemetery to pick out his gravesite. I really believe I felt his presence there and it gave me some peace so that I was able to write down my thoughts and feelings.
A Poem for My Precious Baby Boy
Christian Thomas Hromada
03/19/07 - 11/26/07
I pray for you, my precious baby boy
You brought me and many others so much joy
Although you are not here
I know you will always be near
And even though we are apart
I will always have a special place for you in my heart
I’ll never forget that beautiful smile
And the way you played with your hands all the while
You are so very special to me
And everyone you got to see
Just know that you are loved so much
As you are up in Heaven, blessed with God’s touch
Watching over me from above
My little angel, so full of love
for a sweet little angels anniversary x
My Dearest Family-
Some things I'd like to say
But first of all to let you know,That I arrived okay
I'm writing this from Heaven, Where I dwell with God above
Where there's no more tears, Or sadness there Is just eternal love
Please do not be unhappy Just because I'm out of site. Remember that I'm with you
Every morning, noon and night
That day I had to leave, When my life on Earth was through
God picked me up and hugged me. And He said I welcome you
It's good to have you back again. You were missed while you were gone
As for your dearest family. They'll be here later on
I need you here so badly As part of My big plan, There's so much that we have to do
To help our mortal man
Then God gave me a list of things, He wished for me to do
And foremost on that list of mine Is to watch and care for you
And I will be beside you Every day and week and year And when you're sad
I'm standing there. To wipe away the tear
And when you lie in bed at night. The days chores put to flight
God and I are closest to you In the middle of the night
When you think of my life on earth, And all those loving years
Because you're only human They are bound to bring you tears
But do not be afraid to cry. It does relieve the pain
Remember there would be no flowers. Unless there was some rain
I wish that I could tell you, Of all that God has planned But if I were to tell you
You wouldn't understand
But one thing for certain, Though my life on Earth is over,I am closer to you now
Than I ever was before
And to my very many friends, Trust God knows what is best
I'm still not far away from you. I'm just beyond the crest
There are rocky roads ahead of you. And many hills to climb
But together we can do it. Taking one day at a time
It was always my philosophy. And I'd like it to be for you too
That as you give unto the World. So the world will give to you
If you can help somebody. Who is in sorrow or in pain
Then you can say to God at night. My day was not in vain
And now I am contented. That my life it was worthwhile
Knowing as I passed along the way. I made somebody smile today
So if you meet somebody. Who is down and feeling low
Just lend a hand to pick him up. As on your way you go
When you are walking Down the street
And you've got me on your mind. I'm walking in your footsteps
Only half a step behind. And when you feel the gentle breeze
Or the wind upon your face
That's me giving you a great big hug. Or just a soft embrace
And when it's time for you to go. From that body to be free.Remember you're not going.You are coming here to me
And I will always love you. From that land way up above
We'll be in touch again soon.
Author Unknown
merry christms little angel xxx
I see the countless Christmas trees
Around the world below,
With tiny lights like heaven's stars
Reflecting in the snow.
The sight is so spectacular
please wipe away that tear
for I am spending CHRISTMAS
WITH JESUS CHRIST this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs
that people hold so dear
but the sound of music can't compare
with the CHRISTMAS CHOIR up here.
I have no words to tell you
of the JOY their voices bring
for it is beyond description
to HEAR THE ANGELS SING.
I know how much you miss me,
I see the pain inside your heart
for I am spending CHRISTMAS
WITH JESUS CHRIST this year.
I can't tell you of the SPLENDOR
or the PEACE here in this place
Can you just imagine CHRISTMAS
WITH OUR SAVIOR face to face
I'll ask him to lift your spirit
as I tell him of your love
so then PRAY FOR ONE ANOTHER
as you lift your eyes above.
Please let your hearts be joyful
and let your spirit sing
for I am spending CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN
and I’m walking WITH THE KING.
by wanda bencke
you are sadly missed little man xxx
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REMEMBER
Remember me with a smile
Now my life on this earth is done.
My dreams have all been fulfilled
And a new life has just begun.
Remember me with a smile
When grief may cause you to weep.
One day we will laugh once again
When our Heavenly meeting we keep.
Let's be thankful we shared precious love,
Keep the memories warm for a while,
Let them bring peace to your heart
And remember me - with a smile.
Copyright Marian Jones 2002
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Missing you today and always
My precious little boy
You brought me so much joy
Three years ago you went away
I still think about you every day
This time of year is the worst
Because this is when I miss you most
If I could bring you back I would
The whole family would if they could
I know you're in a better place
But I still miss your smiling face
Even on the darkest night
You made my world seem so bright
With my torment I fight and fight
But I know that I will be alright
Because I know your up above
looking down on me with all your love
Your big sis misses you too
Sometimes she gets a little blue
But we help each other make it through
And we will never, ever forget you
We will never really be apart
because you will always be in our hearts
And so as we remember you today
We send love, hugs and kisses your way.
Precious Child by Karen Taylor Good
In my dreams, you are alive and well
Precious child, precious child
In my mind, I see you clear as a bell
Precious child, precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart, there is hope
'Cause you are with me still
In my heart, you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
In my plans, I was the first to leave
Precious child, precious child
But in this world, I was left here to grieve
Precious child, my precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart there is hope
And you are with me still
In my heart you live on
Always there, never gone
Precious child, you left too soon,
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
God knows I want to hold you,
See you, touch you
And maybe there's a heaven
And someday I will again
Please know you are not forgotten until then
In my heart you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
happy birthday x
"Happy Birthday Christian"
It's sure to be the best one yet,
Though you left us here behind.
Did you think that we'd forget?
Your cake this year, will surely be,
A beauty to behold.
With the icing made of Silver,
And the candles made of Gold.
Yes, your birthday in Heaven,
Will be such a grand affair.
And I know you'll look so lovely,
With a halo in your hair.
The Angels will come from everywhere,
To sing your birthday song.
And I know they'll be so happy,
That you've joined, God's Happy Throng.
No I can't send a card this year,
Or give a gift so fine.
So I'll just send a special prayer,
To that wonderful son of yours.
you are always remembered christian
REMEMBER
Remember me with a smile
Now my life on this earth is done.
My dreams have all been fulfilled
And a new life has just begun.
Remember me with a smile
When grief may cause you to weep.
One day we will laugh once again
When our Heavenly meeting we keep.
Let's be thankful we shared precious love,
Keep the memories warm for a while,
Let them bring peace to your heart
And remember me - with a smile.
thinking of you today little angel
Just one little peek into heaven,
Is all I'm asking for today.
I just want to know how he's doing,
And heaven seems so far away.
Is he playing on the clouds with angels?
Is he laughing and running today?
Does he miss me?
I guess only he knows.
Oh why does heaven seem so far away?
If you just let me look for a moment,
To catch a glimpse of his sweet smiling face,
I promise I won't try to take him,
I know, he's in a better place.
Just one little peek into heaven,
Is all I'm asking for today.
I just want to know how he's doing,
And heaven seems so far away...
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love from paul and di xxx
♥ ♥ HEAVEN ♥ ♥
Heaven would not be Heaven
Without the children there,
Playing hide and seek in pearly mists
Free from every pain and care.
Heaven would not be Heaven
Without their carefree rapture,
Scrambling through the fluffy clouds
Each happy moment to capture
♥ ♥
Heaven would not be Heaven
Without their shouts and laughter
Echoing across Elysian fields
As starbursts they chase after
Heaven would not be Heaven
Without their joyful choir
Ringing through celestial realms
Sweet voices rising ever higher
♥ ♥
Heaven would not be Heaven
Without their radiant light,
Undimmed by earth's murky shades
Their robes shining bright.
Heaven would not be Heaven
Without their smiles of pleasure,
Bearing sheaves of rainbow flowers;
Children are Heaven's treasure.
♥ ♥
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